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		<title>Comment on The Customer is Not Always Right by Vincent</title>
		<link>http://angelastefano.com/2009/09/30/the-customer-is-not-always-right/#comment-304</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vincent]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 03:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a selective mute, there are times when I cannot say hi. I really can&#039;t do small talk with anyone, I don&#039;t why and I cant afford therapy any longer. I don&#039;t demand anything from anyone at stores besides the chance to purchase something at the counter. I&#039;m not looking for a relationship or to be dazzled and I am not going to do anything rude, I just want to hand you money for a product; an honest transaction. Being shy or the like is not the same as being bad]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a selective mute, there are times when I cannot say hi. I really can&#8217;t do small talk with anyone, I don&#8217;t why and I cant afford therapy any longer. I don&#8217;t demand anything from anyone at stores besides the chance to purchase something at the counter. I&#8217;m not looking for a relationship or to be dazzled and I am not going to do anything rude, I just want to hand you money for a product; an honest transaction. Being shy or the like is not the same as being bad</p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s Been Two Years Since I Let You Go by Alan Bedenko (@buffalopundit)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alan Bedenko (@buffalopundit)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Sep 2011 14:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck, Angela. The tattoo is cool - my move in 2001 was from 617 to 716. Boston never felt like home to me, but Buffalo does. I hope you find your way back someday, but in the meantime, drink Boston in, and take advantage of its many opportunities.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck, Angela. The tattoo is cool &#8211; my move in 2001 was from 617 to 716. Boston never felt like home to me, but Buffalo does. I hope you find your way back someday, but in the meantime, drink Boston in, and take advantage of its many opportunities.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How a Semi-Fictitious Groupie Helped Me Decide to Move to Boston by Caitlin Tremblay</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caitlin Tremblay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 19:27:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are going to be FAAAAABULOUS. &quot;Seat by the window, please.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are going to be FAAAAABULOUS. &#8220;Seat by the window, please.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on How a Semi-Fictitious Groupie Helped Me Decide to Move to Boston by Christine Peterson</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christine Peterson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 22:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#039;re so glad you&#039;re coming!!!!!!!! Can&#039;t wait until you start!!!!!  :-D]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re so glad you&#8217;re coming!!!!!!!! Can&#8217;t wait until you start!!!!!  <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by Angela Stefano</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela Stefano]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 23:52:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think it&#039;s common practice for most college sports to have interviews outside the locker room. The one story I did on my school&#039;s hockey team was conducted at practice in the stands, and after games, you&#039;d often see the reporters doing interviews with the players outside the room.

However -- and this is a big one -- those were usually one on one interviews. There&#039;s obviously not as much media, so it&#039;s easier to do interviews in a hallway or somewhere. Were you to make professional sports players conduct interviews outside the room, the hallway would descend into madness -- there&#039;s not enough room, too many people trying to get to too many players all at once. And to parade them out of the room one by one would take SO much time.

The other thing to take into account is this: &quot;As Ann Killion wrote on SI.com, &quot;When Stanford played UConn in last April&#039;s championship, if you wanted to see how devastated Jayne Appel was, you needed to be in the locker room. I was there. So were my male colleagues.&quot;&quot; (http://nbcsports.msnbc.com/id/39239362/ns/sports-nfl/) -- The best stories don&#039;t usually come from the remarks made at a table with a microphone, in front of a team banner. You don&#039;t see the same emotion or get the same little details that you do from the locker room.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s common practice for most college sports to have interviews outside the locker room. The one story I did on my school&#8217;s hockey team was conducted at practice in the stands, and after games, you&#8217;d often see the reporters doing interviews with the players outside the room.</p>
<p>However &#8212; and this is a big one &#8212; those were usually one on one interviews. There&#8217;s obviously not as much media, so it&#8217;s easier to do interviews in a hallway or somewhere. Were you to make professional sports players conduct interviews outside the room, the hallway would descend into madness &#8212; there&#8217;s not enough room, too many people trying to get to too many players all at once. And to parade them out of the room one by one would take SO much time.</p>
<p>The other thing to take into account is this: &#8220;As Ann Killion wrote on SI.com, &#8220;When Stanford played UConn in last April&#8217;s championship, if you wanted to see how devastated Jayne Appel was, you needed to be in the locker room. I was there. So were my male colleagues.&#8221;" (<a href="http://nbcsports.msnbc.com/id/39239362/ns/sports-nfl/" rel="nofollow">http://nbcsports.msnbc.com/id/39239362/ns/sports-nfl/</a>) &#8212; The best stories don&#8217;t usually come from the remarks made at a table with a microphone, in front of a team banner. You don&#8217;t see the same emotion or get the same little details that you do from the locker room.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by pirate's code</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate's code]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 21:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right, wrong or indifferent, the simplest of solutions to most of the problem is to close locker rooms to the press entirely.  It&#039;s really not necessary, even for the major league sports, as beat reporters get access to players and coaches before games, after games, at practice and so on.  Just don&#039;t do it in the locker room.  Years ago, for a college assignment, I asked to interview a professional athlete.  His team PR person arranged it, and I met with that athlete in a room at the stadium...outside the locker room.  All these years later, I doubt there was anything lost in that interview by not having access to the inner sanctum.  

Now, as I understand it, at least some of what Ms. Sainz initially complained about took place along the sidelines at a Jets practice, so my no-locker-access plan wouldn&#039;t address that, but it&#039;s a start.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right, wrong or indifferent, the simplest of solutions to most of the problem is to close locker rooms to the press entirely.  It&#8217;s really not necessary, even for the major league sports, as beat reporters get access to players and coaches before games, after games, at practice and so on.  Just don&#8217;t do it in the locker room.  Years ago, for a college assignment, I asked to interview a professional athlete.  His team PR person arranged it, and I met with that athlete in a room at the stadium&#8230;outside the locker room.  All these years later, I doubt there was anything lost in that interview by not having access to the inner sanctum.  </p>
<p>Now, as I understand it, at least some of what Ms. Sainz initially complained about took place along the sidelines at a Jets practice, so my no-locker-access plan wouldn&#8217;t address that, but it&#8217;s a start.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by Angela Stefano</title>
		<link>http://angelastefano.com/2010/09/16/of-female-reporters-and-professional-sports-is-this-the-50s/#comment-225</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela Stefano]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 14:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Maybe it was the reaction she was hoping for. Part of me totally agrees with you, especially after her whole stint on every TV show ever (ok, I exaggerate, but you get the point). Part of me also says that the way she was dressed is just part of her culture and totally fine to her.

OK, forget the rape comparison -- let&#039;s try cancer. Is it cause and effect that if she dressed that way, she might get such remarks? Yes, much like it&#039;s cause and effect &quot;If you smoke, you may get lung cancer.&quot; But did she deserve it? No, again, in the same way that no one &quot;deserves&quot; to get cancer, except at the basest level that they KNOW their behavior MAY cause it. Just because &quot;common sense dictates&quot; something doesn&#039;t make it right. It means you can take the measures to prevent against it, and, sure, it does mean, in some ways, that you&#039;re tempting fate (&quot;asking for it&quot; if you will) if you participate in that behavior. But after all of that, does that make it right, whether it&#039;s smoking or catcalling (and whether it&#039;s a football player or a construction worker)? Nope.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe it was the reaction she was hoping for. Part of me totally agrees with you, especially after her whole stint on every TV show ever (ok, I exaggerate, but you get the point). Part of me also says that the way she was dressed is just part of her culture and totally fine to her.</p>
<p>OK, forget the rape comparison &#8212; let&#8217;s try cancer. Is it cause and effect that if she dressed that way, she might get such remarks? Yes, much like it&#8217;s cause and effect &#8220;If you smoke, you may get lung cancer.&#8221; But did she deserve it? No, again, in the same way that no one &#8220;deserves&#8221; to get cancer, except at the basest level that they KNOW their behavior MAY cause it. Just because &#8220;common sense dictates&#8221; something doesn&#8217;t make it right. It means you can take the measures to prevent against it, and, sure, it does mean, in some ways, that you&#8217;re tempting fate (&#8220;asking for it&#8221; if you will) if you participate in that behavior. But after all of that, does that make it right, whether it&#8217;s smoking or catcalling (and whether it&#8217;s a football player or a construction worker)? Nope.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by BobbyCat</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[BobbyCat]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 14:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#039;s examine the  &quot;She deserved it because she dressed like a whore.&quot; theory.  It&#039;s a credible theory.
No, a woman doesn&#039;t deserve to be raped if she dresses provocatively, but that&#039;s a false comparison because we&#039;re not talking about rape.  Does she deserve catcalls, propositions, leers or whistles? Deserving or not, she will surely get them.  If she walked past a construction crew at lunch hour, what do you think would happen?  Shall we lecture the crew about their decorum?

Now, let&#039;s say this lady dressed like a whore is walking across the piatzza in Italy. Naw, forget it. You get the idea.  Of course men will react.  Common sense dictates, Don&#039;t dangle raw meat in front of wolves and not expect them to bite.  My guess is,  that&#039;s exactly the reaction she was hoping for. She got the headlines she was seeking..]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s examine the  &#8220;She deserved it because she dressed like a whore.&#8221; theory.  It&#8217;s a credible theory.<br />
No, a woman doesn&#8217;t deserve to be raped if she dresses provocatively, but that&#8217;s a false comparison because we&#8217;re not talking about rape.  Does she deserve catcalls, propositions, leers or whistles? Deserving or not, she will surely get them.  If she walked past a construction crew at lunch hour, what do you think would happen?  Shall we lecture the crew about their decorum?</p>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s say this lady dressed like a whore is walking across the piatzza in Italy. Naw, forget it. You get the idea.  Of course men will react.  Common sense dictates, Don&#8217;t dangle raw meat in front of wolves and not expect them to bite.  My guess is,  that&#8217;s exactly the reaction she was hoping for. She got the headlines she was seeking..</p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by Angela Stefano</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela Stefano]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 13:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Re: men not being allowed in women&#039;s locker rooms: that&#039;s totally false. It&#039;s amazing -- depending on the way you google, you get two totally opposite results that say men aren&#039;t allowed in women&#039;s locker rooms, or those that say they are. However, I&#039;m going to trust the Sports Illustrated report to have the last word: http://content.usatoday.com/communities/gameon/post/2010/09/nude-naked-locker-room-nfl-nba-wnba/1 But what does it say that so many people are misinformed about this?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Re: men not being allowed in women&#8217;s locker rooms: that&#8217;s totally false. It&#8217;s amazing &#8212; depending on the way you google, you get two totally opposite results that say men aren&#8217;t allowed in women&#8217;s locker rooms, or those that say they are. However, I&#8217;m going to trust the Sports Illustrated report to have the last word: http://content.usatoday.com/communities/gameon/post/2010/09/nude-naked-locker-room-nfl-nba-wnba/1 But what does it say that so many people are misinformed about this?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Of Female Reporters and Professional Sports &#8212; Is this the &#039;50s?? by Eric Saldanha</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Eric Saldanha]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 02:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Aren&#039;t male reporters allowed in WNBA locker rooms? I believe this is the case...I will investigate further. I&#039;m pretty sure that Bud Collins had easy access to Billie Jean King in the Wimbledon women&#039;s locker room back in the day.

But, let&#039;s be clear...the comparison of female reporters in NFL/MLB/NBA/NHL/etc. locker rooms to male reporters in any female pro league locker room is beyond apples and oranges. The WNBA and the women&#039;s pro soccer league notwithstanding, there is no &quot;cause&quot; for male reporters to demand access to female locker rooms because &lt;b&gt;there are very, very few, if none&lt;/b&gt;, and it doesn&#039;t compare to the access needed by any professional journalist, male or female, to the locker rooms of the major sports, which happen to be predominately, well 100% male.

I don&#039;t know the specifics of this case and you soell out the predicament quite nicely, Angela. I don&#039;t think female journalists need to dress down to resemble Helen Thomas to gain respect in the locker room, but there is no excuse, no matter how provacatively a woman is dressed, for professional athletes to behave as if a fraternity party has just commenced. If the players disrespected this female reporter, whatever her bonafides, they need to be reprimanded.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aren&#8217;t male reporters allowed in WNBA locker rooms? I believe this is the case&#8230;I will investigate further. I&#8217;m pretty sure that Bud Collins had easy access to Billie Jean King in the Wimbledon women&#8217;s locker room back in the day.</p>
<p>But, let&#8217;s be clear&#8230;the comparison of female reporters in NFL/MLB/NBA/NHL/etc. locker rooms to male reporters in any female pro league locker room is beyond apples and oranges. The WNBA and the women&#8217;s pro soccer league notwithstanding, there is no &#8220;cause&#8221; for male reporters to demand access to female locker rooms because <b>there are very, very few, if none</b>, and it doesn&#8217;t compare to the access needed by any professional journalist, male or female, to the locker rooms of the major sports, which happen to be predominately, well 100% male.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know the specifics of this case and you soell out the predicament quite nicely, Angela. I don&#8217;t think female journalists need to dress down to resemble Helen Thomas to gain respect in the locker room, but there is no excuse, no matter how provacatively a woman is dressed, for professional athletes to behave as if a fraternity party has just commenced. If the players disrespected this female reporter, whatever her bonafides, they need to be reprimanded.</p>
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